The Hummingbird and the Helicopter: Two Approaches to Parenting
Parenting Styles: Hummingbird versus Helicopter Approach As a parent, you think to yourself, am I doing this right? I just want my child to be happy, safe, and successful. Am I a “good” parent? Often, parents feel the need to constantly “help” their children succeed just to get ahead in school, sports, or having “enough” friends. This puts a lot of pressure on parents and their children. The media has different labels for parenting styles, while clinical and developmental psychology has grouped these into three classifications: Authoritarian: focuses on rigid rules, expectations, and consequences. Parents control behaviors and emotions, resulting in children becoming fearful of expressing themselves. Permissive: extreme opposite of aforementioned. Direction and boundaries are not a priority with little emphasis on restrictions. This…